29 Quotes About Sadness To Cry It Out

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Our culture has a strange relationship with sadness.

Despite it being one of the most fundamental emotions that we experience, it’s something that is often not discussed, and certainly never encouraged.

There are a number of cliches that inform the way we view sadness, such as “big girls don’t cry” and “cheer up” – these ideas often run on autopilot in the background.

Emotions, however, are never so simple, they often require that we take a closer look in order to know what we’re dealing with and how we can best handle them.

Here are 29 quotes about sadness to help you cry it out

The way sadness works is one of the strange riddles of the world. If you are stricken with a great sadness, you may feel as if you have been set aflame, not only because of the enormous pain but also because your sadness may spread over your life, like smoke from an enormous fire.

Lemony Snicket

Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought.

Percy Bysshe Shelley

Sadness flies away on the wings of time.

Jean de La Fontaine

Sadness is but a wall between two gardens.

Kahlil Gibran

Research shows that sadness can have benefits

There are a number of studies, such as those by Dr. Joseph Forgas of the University of California, Berkeley, which have found that sadness is not only cathartic, but it can improve our memory, make our judgments more accurate, and increase motivation.

“Tears are words that need to be written.” – Paulo Coelho

We must understand that sadness is an ocean, and sometimes we drown, while other days we are forced to swim.

R.M. Drake

There are moments when I wish I could roll back the clock and take all the sadness away, but I have the feeling that if I did, the joy would be gone as well.

Nicholas Sparks

Experiencing sadness and anger can make you feel more creative, and by being creative you can get beyond your pain or negativity.

Yoko Ono

Distinguishing sadness from depression

A lack of cultural awareness around mental health means that the average person is unable to distinguish between sadness and depression. Though both can propel creative endeavours, depression is a lot more dangerous, and knowing that sadness is temporary can be a useful tool when tackling tough times.

Some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is!.

Dita Von Teese
“Any fool can be happy. It takes a man with real heart to make beauty out of the stuff that makes us weep.” – Clive Barker

There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.

Barbara Kingsolver

There is no greater sorrow than to recall in misery the time when we were happy.

Dante Alighieri

Depression is the most unpleasant thing I have ever experienced. . . . It is that absence of being able to envisage that you will ever be cheerful again. The absence of hope. That very deadened feeling, which is so very different from feeling sad. Sad hurts but it’s a healthy feeling. It is a necessary thing to feel. Depression is very different.

J.K. Rowling

Learn to let go of sadness

When obsession with an event or object becomes habitual, we can often become incredibly sad and distressed at the seemingly unsolvable puzzle that stands in front of us. In these moments we need to understand that we can’t solve a problem at the same level it was created and therefore to let go of sadness may be necessary to look at things afresh.

This motif will remain relevant all throughout our lives, as we deal with breakups, illness, death, change and other losses. To let go of sadness, when the time is right, is to allow ourselves space to reflect and gain a new perspective.

Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
“Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.” – Oscar Wilde

Sometimes we get sad about things and we don’t like to tell other people that we are sad about them. We like to keep it a secret. Or sometimes, we are sad but we really don’t know why we are sad, so we say we aren’t sad but we really are.

Mark Haddon

Leaning against my father, the sadness finally broke open inside me, hollowing out my heart and leaving me bleeding. My feet felt rooted in the dirt. There were more than two bodies buried here. Pieces of me that I didn’t even know were under the ground. Pieces of dad, too.

Laurie Halse Anderson

Being sad is necessary to experience a wide range of emotions

The opponent-process theory of emotion, developed by psychologist Richard Solomon in the 1970s, states that each emotion is followed by a secondary opposite emotion. While life might not feel so straightforward, the truth is that emotions are contextual, so in order to feel happiness, we must understand what sadness is like. Experiencing a balanced but wide range of emotions is the key to a rich life, and though it may be hard to appreciate sadness in the moment, it still plays a crucial role in our lives.

You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.

Jonathan Safran Foer

The word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.

Carl Jung
“Tears shed for another person are not a sign of weakness. They are a sign of a pure heart.” – Jose N. Harris

The longer and more carefully we look at a funny story, the sadder it becomes.

Nikolai Gogol

There is some kind of a sweet innocence in being human- in not having to be just happy or just sad- in the nature of being able to be both broken and whole, at the same time.

C. Joybell

So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.

E.A. Bucchianeri

The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness.

Alain de Botton

It’s OK to feel sad

We tend to treat sadness as if it were something wrong. For those experiencing sadness, it can make them feel alienated. It’s important that we look at sadness as a normal part of life, and allow it to be expressed in a healthy way.

“Every human walks around with a certain kind of sadness. They may not wear it on their sleeves, but it’s there if you look deep.” – Taraji P. Henson

Sadness gives depth. Happiness gives height. Sadness gives roots. Happiness gives branches. Happiness is like a tree going into the sky, and sadness is like the roots going down into the womb of the earth. Both are needed, and the higher a tree goes, the deeper it goes, simultaneously. The bigger the tree, the bigger will be its roots. In fact, it is always in proportion. That’s its balance.

Osho

Don’t be ashamed to weep; ’tis right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. A wounded heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us.

Brian Jacques

Tears are words the mouth can’t say nor can the heart bear.

Joshua Wisenbaker
“The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.” – Nathaniel Branden
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Quincy Seale

Quincy is KIM's lead editor and content writer, and has invested in online properties since 2009. Quincy holds an MBA from the University of Dundee and an MSc from the University of Edinburgh, and lives in San Antonio with his wife Natalie and his dog Oban. When not working on KIM, he enjoys traveling, poker, and anything related to crypto.